Dear Tim ,I didn't know you as well as Matthew as you were a huge part of his life before we met. I do remember you leaving our wedding for a decent cup of tea , which you had never drunk in your life ‘ wave the tea bag over the cup girl ‘ But I think I have you to thank partly for the man he became with your sometime inappropriate humour , your zest for life and your care for others ,which you passed on , thank you for that . The good are always taken too soon